Wednesday, March 2, 2011

five easy ways to integrate NLP Hypnosis into your everyday persuasion skills


By Vince Scot
Neuro-Linguistic Programming or NLP comes from the disciplines which influenced the early development of this science. NLP began as an exploration of the relationship between neurology, linguistics, and observable speech patterns of behaviour. The basic concept of NLP can be deemed the same as what is currently known as "cognitive science", this being an interdisciplinary study combining linguistics, psychology, anthropology, philosophy, neurology and computer science (or cybernetics). The founders of NLP and the persons surrounding them all had knowledge of one or more of those fields.
The early NLP research community incorporated the use of linguists, philosophers and psychotherapists at the time. Anthropologists have long known that mirroring body language when in conversation tends to gain excellent results when trying to persuade a friend to agree with you. It builds rapport and achieves a similar mind-set. Using similar speech when engaged in conversation does exactly the same thing. NLP is simple, effective, subtle and not only puts people at ease but also on the same wave length. Just by planting the seed of a thought you are suggesting to a person that you are in complete agreement with them and others find this engaging.

By the simple use of a person's name you immediately personalise your request and this also grabs the full attention of the subject you are speaking to. Anthropologists know that this works extremely well on the human mind. Dog trainers know that this works in the same way when you are training a puppy. Dogs immediately recognise and respond to their names.

Here are the five easy ways to integrate NLP Hypnosis into your everyday persuasion skills
  1. Decide what you want to say in an evenly paced, low pitched voice. This will gain the full attention of the listener whether you are face to face or speaking on the telephone.
  2. Paraphrasing what a speaker says is another powerful persuasion tool in NLP terms. People mostly use the same descriptive words when talking and in order for you to persuade another person to do something you can use the same phrases when speaking back to them. A trendy expression at the moment is awesome. So for instance you were trying to persuade your friend to accompany you to the cinema to see the latest cinematic release you could say "Johnny, I heard the new movie screening at the Rio is awesome, would you like to go see it on Thursday?"
  3. Anthropologists will testify that mirroring the other person's body language, stance and maintaining eye contact becomes so natural that the other person will not be aware that you are using similar body language to them and instantly and subconsciously this will establish rapport.
  4. By the simple use of a person's name you immediately personalise your request and this also grabs the full attention of the subject you are speaking to.
  5. Finding common interests is a wonderful ice breaker when meeting new people, whether it is cultural interests, a liking for travel or the same kind of car or even having children the same age, people respond to having common ground and similar experiences.

Use all of the five ways and practice, practice, practice. You will find all of these to be effective and powerful persuasion tools.


Sunday, February 20, 2011

Affirmations: What are they and how to use them?


What is affirmations?
Affirmations are short statements. They help to learn to think positively and to adjust itself on success. We consider as success love, money, health, personal qualities and another.
Why use affirmations?
As a rule, many people have a negative spirit. They program themselves on failure. When anything bad happens in their life, they speak "o, devil!" and other bad words also draw a negative in the life. Subconsciously they wish to be ready to bad. Affirmations works with subconsciousness and correct us in depth.
How to use affirmations?
Mechanical repetition of affirmations - simply a time waste. It is necessary to cause positive feelings and experiences, instead of the negative. It is necessary to feel ease, delight and happiness when you repeat these affirmations. If inside you feel any barrier, all will be useless. It is necessary to dare to accept a new spirit in your life!
The best affirmations for augmentation of money in life:
1. I choose such thoughts which make me happy and conduct to abundance!
2. I give and I receive money with pleasure and gratitude!
3. I draw to myself money, as a magnet!
4. I choose happy life with money!
5. My proof is boundless, as the Universe!
6. I receive the blessings from everywhere and from all!
7. The Universe knows that it is necessary for me and satisfies all my requirements!
8. I express admiration of abundance of life and I express gratitude for everything that I have!
9. Everything what I need, I always receive! Now I able to earn good money.

Saturday, February 19, 2011

How to Create a Mindset of Abundant Wealth


When most people are looking for self improvement tips on how to make more money in their lives, they are looking for detailed plans that they can use to immediately get started and build real wealth in their lives. However, as most people that have built wealth know, you have to change your mindset first, if you are really going to make much of a difference in your financial life.
Self improvement gurus for years have told how important it is to do this, to create a mindset of abundant wealth, yet most people will tend to ignore this advice and then wonder why things are not working out the way that they would want it to.
If you are serious about using self improvement tips to manifest abundant wealth, then you have to be ready to have the right mindset to make this achievable.
What are some tips that you can use to attract abundant wealth in YOUR life?
1. You have to know that there is no limit to what you can attract into your life.
Take the example of Sir Richard Branson, the English entrepreneur and billionaire. He did not go to the fanciest of colleges, in fact he dropped out. And still, he was able to make an obscene amount of money and have a good time doing it. In fact, you can still see him doing fun things all of the time, breaking the stereotype of having to be a nerdy type in order to create wealth.
2. You have to be someone that wants to live, rather than to be 'safe.'
A lot of people will hold themselves back from EVER taking a chance at making something happen in their life for the fear of losing their security. You have to be able to take risks now and again if you truly want to be able to attract wealth into your life, and quite often, you will find that there is much less risk than you might have assumed. All you have to do is to gain the proper knowledge and you can easily find ways to make more money in less time and with less energy that what you are currently doing.
3. You have to be able to create plans that you can then put into play.
Without a real definite plan, what you desire is no more than a wish or a hope that something will happen. Although it might sound nice, we all know that hope alone is not enough to really create the kind of change that you crave and to manifest money into your life and make things more like the way that you want them to be. Nothing is going to just fall into your lap, and if you want to attract more money, then you have to make some real plans.

Saturday, December 4, 2010

The subconcious mind power creates our reality!

The phrase mind power and the unconscious mind power are described in many different ways. In the psychosomatic sense mind power is defined as the ability to have emotions, imagination, memory, and will; and subconscious mind power is labeled as part of the natural individual’s personality in which mental processes function with no consciousness under regular waking conditions.
The mind is similar to a constantly flowing spring however a natural spring cannot send forth fresh water and bitter from the same opening, nor yield both salt water and fresh. So it is with the mind and its thoughts; it cannot equally think negative and positive thoughts at the same time. One has to rule the other.
Since the mind reflects habitual thoughts, it is therefore our responsibility to influence our mind and brain with positive emotions, thoughts and energy as the dominating factors in our mind. Mind power is beyond positive thinking or brain power, it is thinking than believing what you think that will manifest your reality. Since this mind power is power of thought and beliefs, and these thoughts and beliefs will create the outcome of your now, you will want to stay aware to the reflections you are thinking.
Mind power is a dual system that includes your power of thought(brain) and your subconscious mind. We all have subconscious mind power; it can be as small as smiling at your boss in the hopes of improving the odds of acquiring a raise. It can be the way you unconsciously handle a situation whether appropriately or not based on your thoughts and beliefs. The power of the subconscious mind comes from the thoughts and beliefs aquired through the years since the day of birth. It can also be influenced by our habits. And when you think about it, it is actually how our lives are shaped, because whatever kind of results you are seeing into your life are the production of the deep throughts and believes you have in your subcontious mind. Your mind power and your subconscious mind work collectively and they shape your reality.
In other words your subconscious mind power is similar to fertile soil that consents to any seed planted inside it. Your habitual thoughts and beliefs are the seeds which are being repeatedly sown and they will eventually produce a crop. So if you plant weeds you will grow weeds, if you plant fruit, you will obtain fruit. You reap what you sow. Now the conscious mind is the gardener, and it is the mind power to decide on what reaches our inner garden- the subconscious